Friday, July 31, 2009

The Blur (Or Not) Between Fantasy and Reality


Proenza Schouler "Medium Suede PS1 Bag" - $1,595 at Barneys
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3.1 Phillip Lim Mongolian Fur Vest - $750 at Phillip Lim
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Joie "Harmony B" Top - $178 at ShopBop
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Alice + Olivia Skinny Pants - $255 at Net-a-Porter
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Fendi Studded Booties - $1,015 at Barneys
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Fiona Paxton "Lane Necklace" - $400 at ShopBop
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Ann Ziebell Cuff - $575 at Kirna Zabete
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Celtic Harp - $456.67 on Ebay
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I openly admit: I am an avid reader of fantasy novels. The longer the book and the more volumes to an epic, the better. I can thank a friend from art school for introducing me. I told him I liked The Lord of the Rings (I think I kept my head down and spoke quietly as I revealed that) and rather than snickering he said: "Have you ever heard of Robert Jordan?" And so the love affair began.

This morning I went to Borders to pick up a book before my trip. Yes, it was a fantasy, and yes, it will be the eighth book I have read by this author alone. She is very good. I credit her with inspiring me to do many things beyond buying all of her books. In fact, a lady who worked at Borders was also vehemently in love with this author. Though strangely enough she kept calling "her" a "him". A little odd, don't you think, to praise an author so ardently and not know their true sex? Ah well.

Why do I even tell you all of this? Well first off, because it is a blog and the whole point of it is to talk about whatever the hell I feel like. And secondly, because I want to tell you why I like fantasy novels so much. I like them because they tap into true, real parts of our lives. Far truer than many other standard fiction books. No, not the parts about riding horses everywhere. And no, not the parts about having no electricity or running water. I always wondered why all of these sagas seem to take place in a fictional version of the medieval ages. Was life really so much better then? Weird. But, what does relate to all of us is the talk of us all being the creators of our own destiny. Of wild journeys through life that bring a person to stand before themselves and look at what they have become. All of these books, no matter the author or the basic storyline, they all say one thing: we make our own lives for ourselves. Charles Dickens was also very good at pointing that out and that is why he is my favorite author. We decided who we are, what we want from life, and how we are going to get it, no matter the odds. Raise your hand if this synopsis does not apply to the summation of your own life. If anyone's hand is still by their side then you have not come far enough along in the journey yet.

The outfit I put together today is a modern day version of something a character out of one of my books might wear. With the exception of the heels. All of the fantasy-world females prefer boots because they can walk or ride in them. These heels are pretty hot though and they pull the whole thing together. So I am keeping them. But the tunic, the vest, the leggings, all of the jewelry - all of that is perfect for a heroine who is saving the world. Her guise as she sets forth? A traveling minstrel. She must start somewhere to earn her meals and a roof over her head. Singing songs to others seems like as good a place as any to start. Who knows where she is headed. But most certainly she will end up exactly where she wanted to be.

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Light Beer?


Scout "Big Tee" Dress - $156 at Bona Drag
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Devi Kroell "60MM" Belt in Raspberry - $575 at Devi Kroell
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Christian Louboutin "Bianca" Pumps - $1,335 at Net-a-Porter
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Sissi Rossi "Multi-Pocket" Bag - $1,265 at La Garconne
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Tsumori Chisato Cat Purse - $264 at La Garconne
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Gucci Rose Gold Bracelet - $2,250 at Saks
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We went out to dinner last night at the Vortex (as mentioned in yesterday's post) and my parents came with us. Actually, it was their treat. Thanks Mom and Dad. One of the best things about the Vortex - besides the hamburgers and the naked girls on the ceiling - is their beer menu. It has a great selection, mostly bottled, of domestics and imports. Pretty small on tap selection though. So we are all sitting and drinking and talking and I ask my mom what she ended up getting to drink. She says "Bud Light". I am her daughter and, therefore, I am allowed to call her out on this unashamedly. "What?! Light beer? Did you even see the beer list? I would have helped you pick something out if you didn't know what they all were!!" And on I went with my tirade against all things unholy. In this case: sparkling water that has fermented into alcohol with draft horses for a logo. She shrugged it off as she usually does to all of my chiding. I guess because she knows I am only half serious and don't love her any less for her lousy choice in beer. And, to her defense, she wanted something on tap and they didn't have a ton of options. Nevertheless...

This morning, when scouring the web for an outfit, I came across a very cool white t-shirt dress by Scout (happens to be at an equally as cool shop called Bona Drag). And I liked it. So much so that I put it into today's look. And you know what I thought of as I looked at it? Simple, plain, non-descript. Bud Light. It is a Bud Light dress. Doesn't seem like much but it gets the job done. Add the right accessories and makeup and it works. Apparently I am my mother's daughter. She, however, would not approve of the snakeskin belt and pumps to go with. A bit too cruel for her. To me, however, they are the "craft beer" that is so detailed and thought out. You need to balance the water out with a little substance. Add to that an almost impossibly soft Sissi Rossi bag. Seriously - if you have never touched one of these bags then you have no idea what the word "soft" even means. A little cat change purse for quarters (Bud Light can be useful). Saks sent out an email today with some new fine jewelry pieces by Gucci. I gasped in delight at the black and rose gold bracelet. Just my style.

It all works out in the end. We each pick the things we like and are content with that. It doesn't mean that anyone else has to like it. I won't be ordering filth water any time soon but I know my mom will and she will enjoy every drop of it like I never could. Love you Mom.

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Love is in the Air, Strangely Enough


Aleander Wang Cashmere Beanie - $190 at La Garconne
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3.1 Phillip Lim Bomber Jacket - $995 at Net-a-Porter
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Alexander Wang Shirtdress - $395 at La Garconne
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Gucci "Pixies" Zipper Bootie - $1,190 at Saks
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Captive Hoops - $5.95 each at Pierced Fish
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Cartier Diamond "Honeymoon" Ring - At Cartier
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Why have I been thinking so much about love lately? I mean really, it is weird. It has consumed my thoughts and kept me up at night. Not because I am tormented by love lost or unfound. Not because of a crushed heart. Because of how much I love love. I love how it makes me feel. I have been with someone seven years now (technically seven on August 18th) and it is wild how every day the facets and depths of our relationship increase. I think it all started when I was so terribly caught off guard at the springing of tears from my eyes as he kissed me goodbye before going away for two days. I have no idea where those tears or the trembling that racked my body came from but I had to quickly leave him before I lost full composure. It wasn't like I was going to miss him all that bad. Two days, big deal. But for the last two days, I have thought of nothing else but the happiness he has created within me. He makes every moment of my life more enhanced. More vivid. More worth it than anything else. Who knows why I cried. I only know that today is day three and I am glad to have him back.

We are getting burgers at our favorite place tonight: The Vortex. If you live in Atlanta and you have not been, shame on you. If you don't live around here I will let it pass but you have no excuse not to go there on your next layover. It is a hybrid between a biker bar and an urban hippy joint. They serve the best damned burgers on the planet. I think a leather jacket is in order, a la Phillip Lim. A hot little Alexander Wang dress underneath and killer Gucci heals. And an Alexander Wang beanie too because I think it might rain. Some cool tribal style hoops in both pairs of holes to complete the look. The cherry on top? A very perfect Cartier ring. I have not been asked yet so I can't wear it on that finger but I can look at it. It looks good. Just like my man.

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Monday, July 27, 2009

The Freedom of Fashion


Porsche 911 Convertible - $52,995 on Ebay
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Copula Plaid Top - $145 at Madison LA
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Peruvian Woven Sash - $65 at Peruvian Connection
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Abercrombie "Jill" Jean Shorts - $60 at Abercrombie
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Prada Booties - $570 at Saks
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Canon "G10" - $461.98 at Amazon
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Two days ago, I was driving to work. It was perfect outside and I had the windows down. Each time I came to a stop light (more than I ever should have, simply because it is Atlanta - you know what I mean if you live here) and I was looking at other cars and almost no one had their windows down. Only two kinds did: men and beaters that probably had no air conditioning. All the ladies had their windows tightly rolled. And their hair was "perfect". For the briefest flick of an instant I thought: I am on my way to work. My hair should look nice. And then I felt ashamed for even thinking that. It was PERFECT out. That means only one thing to me: windows down, smell the air, feel the warmth. And mussed hair comes with that. But it was the moment. It needed to be felt. And I looked again at the ladies around me and felt a little bad I guess. Bad that they couldn't feel this moment that I felt. I made excuses up for them, because it is not my place to take pity on someone I do not know: She is on her way to a wedding as a bridesmaide, she had reservations at Bones to seal a business merging deal, she is the prosecuting attorney on her way to court, she is...and so on. And so they were allowed to get away with it. Because maybe all of those excuses were true. But deeper down I wondered how concerned they were of not being perfect. One of the best quotes of all time that I always repeat to myself is "The happiness of being perfect is being imperfect." It is so true. And these ladies were missing the perfect moment of time in sacrifice of the perfect hair.

People who stick their noses up to the fashion world often think this way of us: we are vain and do not enjoy life because we are only concerned with looks. But it is SO the opposite. We (the fashion loving) embrace life thoroughly. We understand that everything is a brief flick of time. Hence trends and the like. We see what is perfect at a particular moment and use that to sustain us until another perfect moment comes along. We are perceptive and we love life. We get that the only way to understand perfection is to actually forget about being perfect and to just live the moment, regardless of windswept locks.

And so, forever more, I will love my windblown look. It goes with every dress, every high heel, every pair of jeans I own. It will always, for me, be perfect.

What is the best way to enjoy tousled tresses? A convertible. Porsche knows what they are doing. To wear while feeling the sun beat down hot on you? I saw this company (Copula) this morning on Daily Candy and loved the plaid top. It is easy. And then the classic Abercrombie cutoffs to go with it. A Peruvian belt pulls it all together. And then Prada is making these cool new wedge boots that work nicely. The only other thing required of living freely is a camera. It remembers later for you that which you wish you could recall. I may not always remember the way the humid air pushed past me as I drove to work that morning, but I will always have a picture of a lady with to much hairspray and not enough of a smile.

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Stop Haunting Me!


Roberto Cavalli Studded Clutch - $1,185 at Net-a-Porter
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Roberto Cavalli "Assymetric Silk Maxi Kaftan" - $1,290 at Net-a-Porter
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Roberto Cavalli Wedges - $341 at Raffaello Network
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YSL "Pure" Lipstick in "Star Red" - $30 at YSL Beauty
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Jennifer Fisher "Jordan" Necklace - $6,440 at Jennifer Fisher
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Jennifer Fisher "SkullRing" - $2,500 at Jennifer Fisher
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Tylenol PM - $14.99 at Drugstore.com
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Please! I tossed and turned last night as Roberto Cavalli crept into my dreams. I swear it! I know the source: I read just yesterday the article in Vogue (page 96) about Rachele Cavalli working on the accessories end of the design house. Upon seeing the article, I remembered just how much I had fallen in love with all of those accessories that went down the runway in Milan this past Spring. (Click here for that show from style.com) Lately they are popping up in editorials (as they should) and they keep haunting me with their coolness. But as of yet (sigh) they are unattainable. Soon my dearies, those wonderful studded bits of leather will hit the web and the stores. But until then, we must remain satisfied with the current season (though there is not much left of it to be found online). Rachele, after all, did do this collection too. It was her first. I found a cool clutch on Net-a-Porter that I am pretty positive she did, though don't quote me on it. The rest of the ensemble is not hers but is in keeping with the Cavalli spirit. A gown of leopard by the master himself and some simple black wedges. YSL will impose itself for some wonderful red lips, but that cannot be helped. It is simply the best red lipstick, hands down. And the jewelry is not Cavalli either (I often don't care for their jewelry and would not recommend it to others). I opted for Jennifer Fisher. She is one of my all-time favorite jewelry designers. Everything that she does is so California easy (even though she is from NY; it still elicits that west coast vibe). And tonight - some Tylenol PM. I refuse to be haunted again! I will sleep the night through!!!

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Friday, July 24, 2009

I Love Them...Please Forgive Me



Free People "Hula Hood" Top - $38 at Free People
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Unknown Factory Flare Jeans - $105 on Sale at Oak
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Chloe Sandals - $675 at Net-a-Porter
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Hermes "Birkin" Bag - $7,895 at Portero
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Dookie Chain - $29.99 on Ebay
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Sagittarius Pendant - At Robin Katz Vintage Jewels
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M.A.C. "Nightfall" Nail Lacquer - $11 at M.A.C.
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I must apologize now: I will always and forever love flare jeans. They crest and fall as a trend in fashion and so it seems only right that at this very moment, in the times of boyfriends and cigarettes, that I should be sticking my tongue out at these apes. But I can't. I LOVE THEM!!! I think it all stems from my teenage years. When the worlds collided and I realized that I liked fashion, the first cool jeans I bought were flares. They were Calvin Kleins to be exact. And I wore them until I needed to buy two more pairs as replacements. That was in the nineties, when they were coming back hardcore. They stayed "in" for the early 2000s and then, just within the last year or two, they have been pushed to the back of the closet by anyone who is anyone with a sense of style. But I can't do that. They are my best friends. They covered my Doc Martens in high school, they covered my flip-flops freshmen year of college, and they covered my Valentino pumps when I wore them on Monday. Is that a crime? I plead guilty if so.

Oak, in New York, has this slick pair by Unknown Factory. They are on sale, no less, for 50% off. To go with them, I remembered this Free People top I had seen in their most recent mailer. It is loose and comes down a bit in the front but then is much sexier and higher up in the back. Some gold jewelry to go with it. I think a phat "dookie" rope chain is in order. Ebay has one that is 30" long so you can wrap it around twice as a choker. And then a jade pendant on a longer chain. The bag should be vintage - kind of goes with the vibe of the pants. There is this gorgeous suede Birkin at Portero right now that works. And then there are the cute Chloe sandals that will of course be mostly covered up anyways. Fingernails and toes should be dipped in M.A.C.'s "Nightfall". It is all I wear right now and perfect for this.

Don't shun your friends just because other people tell you they are not cool. They will always be there for you. Just like my Calvin Kleins.

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Going to the Beach in My Mind


Mosley Tribes "Santino" Sunglasses - $239 at Zappos
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Dries Van Noten "Leopard Print Blouse" - About $799.57 at Browns
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Dries Van Noten "Leopard Print Pencil Skirt" - About $560.52 at Browns
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Luis Morais "Shell Bracelet" - $1,440 at Aloha Rag
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Norma Kamali "One Shoulder Paul" Swimsuit - $295 at Norma Kamali
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I am going to St. John in less than two weeks. It is all I think about really. I daydream about laying on a beach chaise that is carefully positioned at the top of the tide line, so that the tips of the waves come up underneath and I can loll my arm down to touch the water. And that is all there will be to do and to think about. Nothing and nothing.
I also can picture my first walk out onto the beach. I haven't been to the Caribbean since I was in high school (my ten year reunion is coming up if that helps you guess at my age) and the blueness of it burns like a hot candle in the back of my mind. When I finally see that water again, after the year that it has been for me, I might cry. Happy tears of course. And then I am going to run to the water and splash in it like a two year old.
Dries Van Noten has the coolest top and skirt set and I know they aren't meant for beach cover-ups but why wouldn't you? The print is perfect and it is so unassuming. The suit underneath needs to be sporty enough that I don't have to worry about my non-existent boobs popping out. Something built for the surf. Norma Kamali is so good at making things like that. Don't need any shoes - must feel the sand between my toes. And then a cool Luis Morais bracelet with solid gold shells on it. Sweet. Of course, there is the obligatory sunblock, sunglasses (love Mosley Tribes), towel, etc. Minor details when compared to the majesty of the sea.

Until next time,
The Gatherer

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Bedroom Ninja


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La Perla "Indomitable" Bra - $280 at Net-a-Porter Get it Here

La Perla "Indomitable" Thong - $145 at Net-a-Porter Get it Here


Giuseppe Zanotti for Balmain Heels - $1,745 at ShopBop Get it Here



M.A.C. "Plush Lash" Mascara - $12 at Nordstrom Get it Here

Marroni "Dome Ring" (Best on pinky) - $5,896 at Kabiri Get it Here


The darkness of night has taken over the skies and sleep, for some, is less than hours away. If you do not feel like opening your doors to the Sandman just yet, perhaps a little fun and games is in order? If you answered yes then I recommend acting the part of bedroom ninja. It is simple. Step One: Lingerie. Goes on first, comes of last. Try La Perla's Indomitable collection in pink. So hot. Step Two: Shoes. Any guy loves girl with heels in the bedroom. If you do not fall in love with the tough chicness of Giuseppe Zanotti for Balmain's heel then God help you. Step Three: Black mascara. Three coats to the top lash and one to the bottom of M.A.C. Plush ought to do the trick. Step Four: Ninja costume. f you actually have one, then that is awesome. If not then a vintage T that says ninja should be just as convincing.
Now you are ready for the sneak attack. Upon entering the bedroom, all will appear quasi-normal. You will look like you are heading to bed, what with your oversize t-shirt on and all. I say quasi, because you will after all be wearing high-heels and big black lidded eyes. But that is not the point. I doubt he will argue.
Once you have him convinced it is time for bed, shed the ninja costume and let the games begin.

Sweet dreams,
The Gatherer